Parenting Tips: What you need to know about your child

As a parent, you will always give the best for your child. You take care of them, you love them by all means, you give them their needs and wants. You find yourself exhausted from work, that smile and giggles coming from your child make you feel better more than any spa or treatment could do.

We cannot expect any person to be perfect, to be excellent as they were born. But there are parents who do, but not all. That is why parents send their children to school, to learn, to interact, to know what was outside-the reality-. And this “expectations” comes from your experience as a parent when you were a child.

Your child failed from his exams, activities, and quizzes. You enroll them in a tutorial institution to help your child to understand his or her lesson at school. You pay a lot from this institution, but your child still gets a failed grade. 

Maybe there’s already something wrong? Maybe there’s a thing that is happening to your child that you can’t even notice because it was unnoticeable. Maybe the key to her progress in school works must come from you as their parent.

I’m not a parent. I know it’s hard to focus on so many priorities in life. You work for your family, cook their meals, check their health, teach them good deeds and so many more. Especially if you have more than one child. Your time will be crumbled.

What you have to know about your child are:

•Attention
He needs that special attention (maybe a one-on-one interface). Some child needs to be focused on or to assist them on their journey in learning new things.

•Socialize
A problem with socializing with other children could be possible. If your child may be a victim of bullies or harassment that could drag down their confidence. If they were scared to socialize with someone that could be an effect within your family.

•Treatment
We're not just talking about psychological factors here. But to help your child with her problem, since some children experience harsh experiences outside or within your family that affect his performance.

•Jealousy and Loneliness
I do not really know if I should indicate this. But as I observe other children and asked them why do they not study well it is because they felt that their parents don't care about them. They felt that they were alone and no one cares if what'll they do in their school.

My mother is a single parent (just to share). I saw her everyday carrying that double burden. Working and taking care of us. I saw her get thin and eye bags started to be visible. And as we grow up, we urge to help her with household chores and give her the happiness that she wanted to see for ourselves. It is to be successful in life. I've been jealous of my younger sister and brother because they always get the attention that they want. But as I grow up and learn new things in life, I just understand how hard it is to be like her, to be like them(parents). Doing things for your children, for their future, you buy their needs, give them allowances, expensive toys. But that doesn't stop there. It is always the care and love of the parent that could really inspire any child in this world.




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