Am I making up the title of this blog post?
I think so, but the truth behind this was emotional.
As the years pass by, our generation change and so the perspective of society to what is the real definition of beauty.
That perfectionism was almost around us. Like in every corner of every place there will be people that will criticize you and give opinions about yourself.
Which you can just don't mind, right?
But for some, they can't manage to not be affected by this.
Some critiques could help you to improve, yet other people became insensitive that some cannot handle criticization.
It is because of how media already affect the way we think about ourselves or to another or maybe because of the environment that we grow up to.
I write this blog post because I wanted for you to open your mind to what is really happening
to your surroundings, that even these people show they don't care. WELL, THEY REALLY DO, sometimes they don't just say it.
Beauty has so many definitions, it depends upon the person whether he/she thinks your pretty, sexy, cute, and etc.
And for some, they create factors in their minds to what is the definition of beauty to them.
Some hated the definition that EVERYONE IS BEAUTIFUL OR ANYONE CAN BE BEAUTIFUL, it is because of their experiences or to what they have observed to this generation.
Well, it saddens me that even our personality and attitudes are just third or fourth factor to become accepted.
Most of us, when we wake up, our first activity was to check our notifications from social media sites. Our decisions depend on the things that we see from other people through media and we use to idolize the people who have these factors that already affect the way we think and how we define beauty nowadays.
Ladies even men depend on their physical identity on the people they see through the internet.
The uniqueness of every individual depends mostly on what we see through social media. And that is how it greatly affects our point of view to the real definition of beauty.
Likewise, if you have a pimple or acne, you tend to be overreacting like you thought you are going to be an ugly person by then. You tend to have lower confidence just because you have a pimple-like 2 or 3 of them. Which other people had tons of these pimples all over their face, yet they confidently smile with it.
And then, because you do not have the latest fashion trends in your rack. You tend to criticize yourself
for being ugly because you don't have money to buy these latest fashion trends.
The important things here are, this criticization, these things are already changing you and sometimes you are not being you, just because those people say you are ugly.
IT DOESN'T DEFINE YOU, YOUR BEAUTY, AND THE REAL YOU.
AND IF SOMEONE SAYS YOU ARE UGLY, LET THEM. WHY? BECAUSE THEY'RE WASTING THEIR TIME FOR YOU instead of doing something more valuable.
Thank you for reading! Spread Goodvibes as always!
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